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The Illusion of Stuckness: Why We Believe We’re Trapped Oct 03, 2025

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We’ve all felt “stuck”... like no matter what we do, we can’t break free. But what if that stuckness is just an illusion? Early shame and suffering condition us to believe resistance means defeat, even w...

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How Trauma Conditions Us: Reclaiming Authority After Shame Sep 30, 2025

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Shame has a sneaky way of conditioning us to forget our own power, slowly numbing us until our connection to self-worth feels like nothing more than a distant ghost. In this clip, Colleen and Dana explor...

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Indifference as Healing: Freedom in Choosing Alignment Sep 26, 2025

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We often hear that the opposite of love is hate - but that’s not true. Hate still requires a fixated focus. The true opposite of love is indifference. In this video, let's explore indifference not as col...

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Turning Focus into Freedom: Finding Flow & Play Sep 23, 2025

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Shame and enforcement often try to convince us that we must focus on what feels out of alignment- leading to disconnection, violation, and self-betrayal. But there’s another way. The opposite of fixa...

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Reclaiming the Power of Focus: Breaking Free from Shame Sep 19, 2025

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Shame thrives when we give away our focus. In this short reflection, we explore how shame and condemnation are used as tools of control- and how remembering the power of your own focus can set you fr...

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Why Shame Keeps You Stuck: And the Path to Liberation! Sep 16, 2025

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Are shame and condemnation secretly shaping your focus and energy? In this short talk, Dana and Colleen explore how effort, focus, and condemnation get tangled together into painful structures- and h...

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From People-Pleaser to Trailblazer Aug 29, 2025

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Beyond "fight, flight, and freeze," there's the "fawn" response- a survival mechanism where we become useful to others to avoid being hurt. But what if we could transform this response into a genuine...

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Beyond the Story: Finding the Real Facts Aug 26, 2025

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We challenge the way you think about trauma and your past. Join us in a discussion on how healing isn't about changing facts, but about making a new agreement with the feelings about those facts. Dr...

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That Childhood Story: What's Holding You Back? Aug 22, 2025

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Ever feel like you're the problem? In this clip Colleen helps breakdown the childhood story that continues to affect most of us as adults. We explore why we were meant to be self-centered as childre...

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The Role of Shame in Your Well-Being Aug 19, 2025

Are you caught in a cycle of sacrifice? This video reveals a powerful truth: the lie that you can't handle shame is what keeps you disempowered and steals your joy. We explore the critical difference between empathy and sympathy and how a dynamic of sacrifice leads to a guaranteed "win-lose" outcome...

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Slowing Down to Speed Up: A Better Way to Stay Healthy Aug 15, 2025

Shame is a powerful force, and it might be sabotaging your health goals without you even realizing it. In this video, we explore the deep connection between shame and your relationship with your body and weight. We discuss why a deprivation-based approach to weight loss is often unsustainable and ke...

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Your Worth Is Not a Negotiation- Period! Aug 12, 2025

Feeling exhausted? You might be caught in the shame cycle. We often hold ourselves back by believing we're "not enough" but what if that's a lie? In this video, we expose how our exhaustion comes from trying to conform to others' beliefs, and we share a powerful perspective on why people's broken pr...

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